Last night I had one of my A.d.d blips.
I had written on my calendar that there was a womens group meeting.
So I did the mapquest check to where it was going to be.
Then I left to go there, A bit late but thought I would call Tesa on the way to her house.
I had this mild nudge to call before I left, but thought I would wait until I was closer to her house.
I had written on my calendar that there was a womens group meeting.
So I did the mapquest check to where it was going to be.
Then I left to go there, A bit late but thought I would call Tesa on the way to her house.
I had this mild nudge to call before I left, but thought I would wait until I was closer to her house.
I got on 23 and then called her instead of waiting. She answered and I said
" Hi tesa I am on 23 and on my way" She said " Uh Terry your on your way to where"?
perplexed I said " uh to your house for the women's group meeting"
Tesa then said" Uh terry there is no women's group meeting tonight"
"But I have it on my calendar"! (Like that is then suppose to make it happen)
"Oh thats right its on the Eighth !! Uh well this ISN"T the eighth either uh yeah thats next Tuesday!!
Geezzz The poor dear has not known me long enough or knows my blips.
I then decided to pull off the nearest exit and head home, BEEP (Brillant Idea)
I decided to call Pierre and see if he will meet me at Lowe's to pick out tiles!!
perplexed I said " uh to your house for the women's group meeting"
Tesa then said" Uh terry there is no women's group meeting tonight"
"But I have it on my calendar"! (Like that is then suppose to make it happen)
"Oh thats right its on the Eighth !! Uh well this ISN"T the eighth either uh yeah thats next Tuesday!!
Geezzz The poor dear has not known me long enough or knows my blips.
I then decided to pull off the nearest exit and head home, BEEP (Brillant Idea)
I decided to call Pierre and see if he will meet me at Lowe's to pick out tiles!!
( now isn't that a great idea)? He suggest I just come home and we take one car.
Ok so we head out there, I tell him I also want to pick out some paint swatches for the walls.
(remember sky blue) and then look at tiles. he reacts and says " Oh YOUR planning this now"
We do that for a bit I find something close, then we head to the tile aisle ( say that 5 times fast)
Ok so we head out there, I tell him I also want to pick out some paint swatches for the walls.
(remember sky blue) and then look at tiles. he reacts and says " Oh YOUR planning this now"
We do that for a bit I find something close, then we head to the tile aisle ( say that 5 times fast)
I see some and mention there they are. He snaps " They are the self- adhesive kind" ( he was fine down the other aisle) I just about snapped my neck looking to see what happened to him.
"okay so lets got down the aisle more, we can still find the other kind."
"okay so lets got down the aisle more, we can still find the other kind."
Which I then get somewhat confused over what kind we ARE looking for.
I started looking for the glue on kind, or commercial ones.
He goes into this passive to panic mode. We are then playing " whose on first"
I keep saying ok so we dont want the self- adhesive right"
He wont answer me. I am looking at cartons of boxes
trying to find what I think he wants.. ( and me too)
I had no idea what he wanted. I say "ok so what we need then is non-adhesive glue on kind right"
uh still no answer.. I then think I finally find some that says commerical grade on the label on the shelf.. he sees that they are still self-adhesive.. and really gets blistic
" You know I do not even now what I want to do or how I am going to fix the basement if I want to make it all one room or not, I dont' know what I am doing yet"
Sheeshhh!!
I then think thats it.. I cannot keep up with this, I have to just turn this over and not make it so important anymore. I have the last stage of design figured out and I will just wait.
I say ok then I guess we can ask at the desk if they even have the kind that you want.
No one came for a while so I say " we might as well just leave, You don't know what you want to do yet so that has to be figured out before we go any further."
I am near tears thinking I am so frustrated in trying to get going on this project.
I will just switch to the other project I can do right now.
He then...says he wants to go look at tools!!
HE NEVER wants to look at tools!!! in all the time we have gone there NEVER!
I am really loosing it now.. I just surrender and pray "Lord this is yours
I cannot do this, You have to put a fire under his butt"
well someone showed up because when I got to the " tool section"
he was looking at compressures. And he smiles at me and is all loopy!!
his tone of voice had softened and he was fine!!
I am loosing it at this point.. He is switching moods like a 13 yr old girl!!
I cannot keep up with him I am tellin ya. I think I need to buy a construction helmet...
in the " tool section"
tune in again, same bat time same batty channel
I started looking for the glue on kind, or commercial ones.
He goes into this passive to panic mode. We are then playing " whose on first"
I keep saying ok so we dont want the self- adhesive right"
He wont answer me. I am looking at cartons of boxes
trying to find what I think he wants.. ( and me too)
I had no idea what he wanted. I say "ok so what we need then is non-adhesive glue on kind right"
uh still no answer.. I then think I finally find some that says commerical grade on the label on the shelf.. he sees that they are still self-adhesive.. and really gets blistic
" You know I do not even now what I want to do or how I am going to fix the basement if I want to make it all one room or not, I dont' know what I am doing yet"
Sheeshhh!!
I then think thats it.. I cannot keep up with this, I have to just turn this over and not make it so important anymore. I have the last stage of design figured out and I will just wait.
I say ok then I guess we can ask at the desk if they even have the kind that you want.
No one came for a while so I say " we might as well just leave, You don't know what you want to do yet so that has to be figured out before we go any further."
I am near tears thinking I am so frustrated in trying to get going on this project.
I will just switch to the other project I can do right now.
He then...says he wants to go look at tools!!
HE NEVER wants to look at tools!!! in all the time we have gone there NEVER!
I am really loosing it now.. I just surrender and pray "Lord this is yours
I cannot do this, You have to put a fire under his butt"
well someone showed up because when I got to the " tool section"
he was looking at compressures. And he smiles at me and is all loopy!!
his tone of voice had softened and he was fine!!
I am loosing it at this point.. He is switching moods like a 13 yr old girl!!
I cannot keep up with him I am tellin ya. I think I need to buy a construction helmet...
in the " tool section"
tune in again, same bat time same batty channel
